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Girlfriend doesn't know how to relax her muscles to squirt!

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Question - (5 August 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 August 2011)
A male United States age 22-25, anonymous writes:

so, i need help with getting my girlfriend to orgasm...her vagina gets tight but she wont squirt,she says that she really thinks its pee.. but i told her its not but she says she scared to let it goo! also her body tenses up nd she doesnt know how to relax her pc muscle, how does she do this..?

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (7 August 2011):

DoubleM agony auntYou two first need a lot of education about sex, of which you are sorely lacking. Orgasms and squirting are not synonymous, and very few women ever squirt more than a little ooze (in some cases) that usually goes unnoticed. And relaxing the PC muscle is the exact opposite of the usual desired technique. You guys are totally numb in the head!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2011):

not all girls orgasm. not all girls squirt.

The pee feeling is often associated with an orgasm, but it's her body, and if she doesn't want to let go, that's her choice. I guess it's about the fear of what MIGHT happen. Men can't ejaculate and pee at the same time, but women can - it might actually be pee.

Why not do it in the bathroom next time... she may feel more comfortable letting go there since it'd be easier to clean up.

Just comfort and encourage her. Don't pressure her. If/when she wants to do it, she will!

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