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writes:So, last winter, a was a having bi-curious thoughts, and a boys told me he liked me. He asked me out, but after a little bit of flirting, I turned him down. Eight months later, I broke up with my gifriend and realized I liked him. He never stopped liking me, so we started dating. We were pretty happy, but after a week he broke up with me saying that he needed space. When I confronted him, he told me not many people knew the real him. I told him I've never wanted to know anyone more, and he said he dumped me because he doesn't want me to know the real him. How do I show him that I'm not afraid of really knowing him? I think I might love him, but I don't want to say that. Please help!
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (1 September 2011):
 he's messing you around-he may be afraid of intimacy but thats not your problem. he needs to mature
chasing him will be a wild goose chase
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reader, Ashley0112358 +, writes (30 August 2011):
 I am not sure if i can give you a full fledged answer, but i can offer you a little to think about.Think about when you came out about being bi-curious, and how hard that was, he too is now in that exact situation.I understand it must be difficult for you at the moment, but if you want him to open up and be honest with you, maybe you need to consider opening up and being honest with him about the way you feel.Just let him know you care, you are there for him, and give him a little space. You only live once, and maybe admiting you love him will be a chance worth taking.Im sorry i couldnt be more help, good luck.
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