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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear CupidI work in same office as of my bf of 3 years. Lately he was vey busy at work, lots of work load as he was trying for promotion. As he was busy at work, he stopped even being civil to me, its like i dont even exist for him. Its been a month since we had sex or had a nice little chat. Even though we stay together i miss the old him, the old us.I offered to help him at work and he gave me some of his work and which i completed it for him in my spare time. I expected atleast a little thank u from him which ofcourse i didnt get. Is it too much to expect him to show even a little bit of gratiude or atleast a thank u. I dont want to make this a big deal, but im getting frustated by the way im being treated.What should i do, please help me.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (3 October 2013):
You don't mention whether or not you've talked with him about this... That's pretty important information.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2013): It is a big deal if he has changed his attitude towards you, just be honest. He may not even know what a tyrant he is being towards you.
Explain that when he is home from work that you want to sit and talk, acknowledge the fact that you and he are busy, especially him. But the relationship is suffering and if he wants it to work he is going to need to address his approach, just because he is stressed in work it shouldn't mean he should let other aspects of his life take a fall too.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (2 October 2013):
 Do you and he live together?
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