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writes:hiya!! lost soul here __ you see i really like this guy but cant confess i like him i've been by sorta his side since grade 6 he's been to my homeroom class grade 6,7,8 grade 6 is when i move from different country anyway im afraid to choose between friendship and my love life and im really huring inside whenever girls are all over him, right now i know 4 girls who like him!! im really hating myself PLAESE HELP!!!heres the deal if i tell him i like him and he say yes that good and bad for me cuz i will feel insecure and not talk to him but if he rejects me its the same thing i'll never talk to him and all the friensdships stuff we've been through will all go down the drain and ways if i dont tell him its good and bad too good - im still gonna be his best friend and i can still talk to him bad i always hurt myself seeing all the girls are al over him !! i want to know if he likes me and i dont want to know if he likes me its a mix feeling want to know bcuz maybe he does really like me like everybody says dontwant to know cuz i'll get hurt if he says no or maybwe im jusst a big chicken NEED HELP ASAP I REALLY LIKE HIM he is nice, funny, cute, kindhearted, knows me a lot, really close to me, we've spent time together not alone though with friends hes 14 me too help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): ok hun u need to sit him down and tell him exactly what you've written in your question, that you really like him but your scared of what he might say and tell him your scared incase it ruins your friendship.good lucktake carexxx
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (23 February 2008):
 Sweetheart,
You need to sit down with him and talk to him about the situation.
Trust me, if you know each other that well he will want to know how you feel, and I am very sure he will understand where you are coming from.
Just put the shoe on the other foot, so to speak. If you were him, wouldn't you want to know?
Or even now, if he feels that way about you don't you want to know?
If he were to want to sit down and talk this over with you, what would you do?
If you open a channel of communication with him you may be pleasantly surprised. Give it a try. I hope it all works out for you both. Doc
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