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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I really like this guy I've known for 6 months now. I almost only meet him at parties but we always hang out a lot then and we've become good friends now. When I first met him I didn't really see him as more than a friend and I said things that totally "friend zoned" him. This Friday we were at the same party and at the party was a girl that I knew he had made out with a couple of months ago and I know that he thinks she is really attractive so I asked him if he wanted to go talk to her. His answer was "no, I'm with you now". And later I walked with him home which usually takes like 45 minutes and then I took a taxi home since I live more far away from where we had been. We talked a lot and when I am drunk I can get really chatty and talk a LOT. So I said to him that he can totally tell me to shut up if I talk too much but he said that it was okay because he thought it was fun to listen to me talking. And before I got into my cab I hugged him goodbye and he hugged me a little bit tighter and longer than usuall. Do you think that he might like me as more than a friend or am I reading to much into this?
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reader, janniepeg +, writes (2 September 2012):
 I would rely on my first impression. They say it only take seconds to determine whether someone is in the hot zone, the friend zone, or the dead zone. I have never heard of getting out of the friend zone and then developping into something more. I feel it's possible but it's rare for the long term. It's just that you feel safe with him so you spend more time with him but you still want to test things between you two because you get a little attached. It also feels good to be able to say, you have each other when you have each other, when you can't find anyone else. So I think you are reading too much into it.
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