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writes:I'm 14, turning 15 in March who is seeing a 19 year old turning 20 this July. Me and him have known each other since 7\18\09 and since then we been so hooked on each other. I'm seeing him but really we aren't dating we're just friends, we do kiss, hug, etc.. He says when I finish school (class of 2O13) we could start dating and tell the family about each other. my dad would freak out if he found out about him because he's the son of one of my dad's friends not the best ones too! really my family is pretty cool and they just wanna see me happy my mom already knows about him. is this right do? i keep going with this relationship? could it really be called a relationship? Reply to this Question
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (7 January 2010):
 Its a relation ship theres diffrent types but anytime you have an investment with some one your in a relation ship theres family friend business and romantic relation ships.
YOur 14 anything you do at this age will ultimately fall on your parents neck, If there ok with this guy i wont judge and neither should anyone else, we dont choose who we love in this life.
Im a realist i dont see how your gonna hide this relation ship until 2013 your 14 it will be written all over your face, plus im sure he doesnt want to wait that long to get in your pants and im sure you dont want to wait that long to let him its inevitable., That will bring up more issues,
i suggest you tell your parents convince him hes a good guy hes good for you and your responsible if thats possible.
20 and 14 is a stretch but your gonna get thrown out on your ass at 18 and expect to have a clue about guys so im guessing this could work but the odds are your gonna fall out of love with this guy hes gonna want an older girl at some point what about college will you go locally or out of state long distance relation ships dont work at your age.
choice is yours my verdict just be friends if your both still single and hot for each other when your 21 then go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): friends with benifts is whats its called
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