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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i am in relationship with my teacher.... it's been a week and im still nervous and scared to be caught.. i dont want her to lose her job.. but on the other hand im soo happy. no way im letting her go.. she's the most beautiful thing on earth. to avoid getting caught we could only text and call each other when we're at home. sometimes i'd drop by her place but many schoolmates live in that district. any advice on what to look out for? has anyone been into r/s with your teacher?i know it's wrong.. but i'd die to have her love. and now that i have it, im gonna treasure it to death. we havent had sex..only kissing. how should i start? i respect her a lotfew days ago i texted her in class.. i said i love her and missed her, she replied saying "i miss u and i need u. hope todays beautiful for u". is that a hint? or not??
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reader, Drat001 +, writes (3 January 2011):
An important thing to consider in all teacher-student relationships is that true love waits. You can be friendly, even informal friends, but you must not have any sexual contact with each other until you graduate. Once you graduate, it's your lives, live them how you want, so long as nobody gets hurt. If you allow yourselves to get physical before you graduate, odd are someone will get physical with the teacher in prison, of you know what I mean. It's just best all-around to wait. You can find out if you like each other, fine, just don't have sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): It's ok...
I'm a girl and I've done it once..
We got caught and it had been very miserable!!
Just don't tell anyone!!..
Try to shut up and everything will be fine..
It feels very good..
Never let go..
Hide it or you'll both be miserable!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): If you're worried about getting caught with your teacher, then just don't be with your teacher - simple!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): You should watch 'All american girl - the mary kay letourneau story' it's a true story which mirrors what you are going through right now...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): Your teacher is wicked, she wants to destroy your life. Get out now while you can, you have a lot to loose. Teachers who get romantic with students don't really care about them. If she cared about you she would do everything in her power to stay away until you have finished at school.
Teachers job is teach, your job is to learn, pass exams and get a good job. How is this romantic crap helping you with your studies. How can you pass bloody exams if all you can think about is her. This teacher is selfish, she doesn't care about you at all. I hope she looses her job and is never allowed to teach again.
Read these two links, relationships with teachers can destroy your life, your health and your future.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-a-pupil-that-got-involved-with-a.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/why-falling-for-your-teacher-is-never-good.html
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (28 December 2008):
If she gets caught then she'll lose her whole career so just stick to texting and phone calls at home if you can't give her up.
Surely it wont be long till you will be out of school and then you'll be free.
I know it's hard but just keep your distance and count down the days.
Good Luck!! xx
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