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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Okay, so i don't know who i could talk to about this, so i'm writing here, so here's the situation: I am a girl, still in high school. all my life I've only ever been attracted to guys, never girls. well... scratch that, I have had a thought or two about some girls, but when I actually started to think about it, it freaked me out. I have always been a huge supporter of the gay community, and never had any problems with someone being attracted to someone of the same sex. in fact, I was inspired by the fact that they were proud enough to come out about it. so, all that aside, I always thought I was straight..but recently a girl moved into my school district. at first, I almost didn't like her, but I couldn't stop thinking about her. now we're friends, and sorta close. off and on, i'd have times when I thought about her, and I would feel like I sort of liked her. now, for a while, I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. she's awesome, and I truly think she's one of the coolest people I've ever met. I can safely say, I think I have feelings for her in a more than friendly way. she's really beautiful, but she doesn't have a lot of confidence. she honestly doesn't think she's attractive, but all I want to tell her is that she is gorgeous! my god she is beautiful..she is a supporter of gays also, but I think she's straight. I'm not entirely sure about that though. I haven't ever had such feelings for a girl before, but there is something about her. I feel like there's a part of my brain where this feels completely normal, it only gets a little bit weird in my mind - not when I think about how she's a female - but when I think about how I'm a female. but trust me, I do feel like a girl, so I know its not like I believe I should have a sex change. please someone help me! I don't know what to do! I need some advice! am I bisexual? or is it just hormones acting up? should I keep it to my self? or should I tell her? and if I should tell her, how long should I wait before I tell her? there's a school dance coming up soon, and she's all I can think about because me, her and my other friend are all planning on going together..I'm just having these fantasies where she pulls me in and kisses me when we're alone. I just need some advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2012): It sounds beautiful. You have a lot of love and care in you and I look forward to what responses you get in reply to your inquiry. I do not have any advise but I do know if you had not written that last line I might have thought sharing the fact that we all find people males and females to be beautiful sometimes and see their better sides from an artistic viewpoint which does not influence our being straight, bi, or gay/lesbian, or transgendered. I wish you well.
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