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writes:im 14 and so is my boyfriend. We have been seeing each other for about a week. Im still a virgin bt my boyfriend isnt. Every time i am with him i want to do more than kiss and touch each other but im scared. Hes always tryin to touch me but i feel uncomfortable. What do i do? will my first time sex hurt? im scared.becky
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2007): I am in the exact same position, except my bf is 15.. he also, is not a virgin, i want to have sex with him..i know im young but i feel ready, i just want to get it over with..im scared i wont be able to pleasure him as much as the girl he had sex with first..i dont know what to do..ive been with him for about 3 months now and i feel very comfortable with him..im just scared of losing my virginity because ive heard that it hurts...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2007): Hiya, seeing as you say your scared and you're obviously worried I really don't think you're ready. Let him know you don't want to go further and if he really likes you he should be fine with that, he might be trying to sleep with you to impress his friends or make himself feel good and older but don't give in. You need to have a strong mind and sense of where you're going in a situation like this, because he might start saying your fridged or something like that but you need to remember that you will always regret sleeping with someone at 14, when you didn't even want to and who you felt uncomfortable touching you. Save your first time for when you can actually say 'I want to do this' and mean it. Then you will know you're ready but if you have a bit of doubt, don't do it.
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reader, anxious heart +, writes (29 January 2007):
the first time does hurt for a girl, but to be honest i dont think you are ready and i think you should tell your boyfriend that, and if he doesnt like it or doesnt want to wait for you then you should get rid of him, you should never be uncomfortable or feeling pressured into sex. good luck babe.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (29 January 2007):
 First time sex does hurt a bit but not too much. Can I be honest chick? It sounds like you're not ready for sex. When you are worried you won't be scared or uncomfortable anymore. Don't feel pressured into doing anything. You have years ahead of you of being young. There's no rush to throw away your virginity on the first guy who asks, and certainly not after a week. If you choose to disregard all this advice however make sure you practise safe sex.
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