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writes:okay here it goes. Recently I lost my virginity friday and I had sex today. I'm young so pregnancy really scares me, mainly because I had a friend become pregnant and I see the struggles she endures as she is young also. I take very high precaution with this, I am on the pill; he uses a condom..etc. Well ever since we did stuff for the first time (hes had sex, I haven't) I've been worried. My mom leaves for work in the morning so we mess around then, well afterwards I feel very tired and I have been ever since the first time. I asked my friend for pregnancy symptoms and she said fatigue is one. Do you think this is because we mess around early and stuff? This is so difficult to explain cuz I'm not even fully sure myself. I hope I'm just overreacting again. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!
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reader, pebble  +, writes (16 June 2009):
 You would not be having pregnancy symptoms this early. They usually start around 2-3 months, not 4 days!
Like SY said, you can only wait for your period, if it's late, take a test if not, you're probably fine.
And maybe you should hold off sex until you feel a little bit more comfortable with the consequences...? There's always a chance of pregnancy, no contraception is 100%. If you're going to worry this much everytime you do it, then have a think about whether it's worth it. Just something to think about :)
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2009): You have to calm down because at the moment, there's not a thing you can do.
You have to wait for your next period; that's the first telltale sign, HOWEVER stress delays it, so i wouldn't ultimately rely on it's timliness.
If you miss your period on its usual day, then wait about two weeks and take a home pregnancy test. You can take it sooner if you get First Response pregnancy test.
Until then though, remain calm. There is abslutely no point in worrying over this until you have further information.
If you are pregnant, then you are welcome here to this site, where we will help you futher.
goodluck.
~SY
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