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writes:I need some advice, i've fell out with a friend of mine, i dont really feel like he cares but then again he isnt someone he like to talk about stuff. I've took peoples advice and said leave him etc and so i;ve done that but they aslo said after a while just see if he'll speak to you by striking up a converstaion online like seeing if hes alright.I plan to do this but im not sure what to say? any ideas.Also a worry i have is that i dont want to just start talking to him again and we never get this sorted because we just go back to how we were as i would be digging myself a deeper hole. but at the same time i dont exactly wanna have ago at him again when i speak to him. What can i say to him? What would be best? Maybe something that shows i just want to know why hes been like this but at the same time not nasty otherwise it wont make anything better. Thankyou :) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010): Just say 'hi' and 'I haven't heard from you in awhile.' Easy. Keep it simple and go from there.
I think he'd be happy knowing that you at least asked and had him in your mind. And if he doesn't reply right away don't worry, give it time. People never forget friends easy.
But yeah, at least say 'hi' and get that part over with.
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