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anonymous
writes:I have been talking to my ex for the last few months. We have been flirting again and kinda fooled around. He says he still loves me and wants me and how much I turn him on. He sends me a friend request on facebook and I accept then today I check my facebook to send him a message and he's no longer on my friends list but then I check a friends profile and he's on her and her husbands friends list. What is going on with him? he has always confused me, what should I do? Part of me still loves him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2010): It sounds to me like he's feeding his ego with a ... "Yeah, she still wants me, well f her" kind of thing.
Ignore future contact from him and when he asks why, say "because I've gotten over you and I don't want to go down that path again".
Good luck.
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reader, WhateverMovesThee +, writes (13 September 2010):
 I strongly believe that you should move on. It seems like he's playing games, adding you on FB then deleting you. I truly don't think he wants to get together again or anything. I have a suspicion that he was priming you to be a bootycall. So, don't try to contact him and ask him why he deleted you. Play it cool, go on dates with other guys and forget about him. When he told you he loved you, he also said you turned him on. If he had meant something deep, it would have been "I love you, I miss you...you mean so much to me and lets give this another chance." If he approaches you again, the ball will be at your court. You can fool around with him again without any promise of commitment (which is fine if you want that) or you can walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2010): as you said he has always confused you.. dont hurt yourself over him ..move on .. hes given you mixed feelings which is cruel .. and heartless .. move on and don't turn around ..dust yourself off girl and look gorgous ..
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