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writes: I have met one of the best girls I have ever met. she's gorgeous, funny and great fun to be with, only thing is, we started going out for about three weeks then she explained to me how she isn't long over a relationship, and her problem is she can't get over this guy! he keeps tourturing her and phoning her to meet up but when she does he always talks to her about his new girlfriend and phones his new girlfriend while she is with him. It annoys her so much but yet she still can't get over him. The question I would like to ask is, what can I tell her to do to help get over him and make her realise that I would never treat her bad and win her back? Reply to this Question
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, R.C., writes (8 February 2005): I think you should have a serious but sympathetic talk with her on whether she is ready for a relationship with you. I realise you care for her a great deal and she's very lucky to have the affection of someone who really wants the best for her, but you have to consider yourself too - can you keep picking up the pieces while she's distraught over another guy? Ask her if she wants some time on her own to deal with this until she realises what a complete loser her ex is. If she decides she wants to take some time out then let her have it. If she wants to stay with you while she works it out, then give her all the support she needs. Eventually she's going to see sense, but sometimes us chicks can really get the blinkers!
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