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writes:I had a long on/off relationship for several years,She broke it off because I wouldnt commit.When I was ready to commit she was with someone else.After 3 months we began talking and seeing each other again. we professed our love and I told her I would do anything to be with her . One month later she breaks it off cold says my time away in the past has changed her views.Two days later she texts me she still loves me. I know something freaked her out and she is seeing someone else .We havent spoken in one month,should I try to innitiate contact? and how or should I just move on and see if she ever gets in contact with me again.Ive known this person for many years and cant imaging her not contacting me , But Ive been wrong before about a lot of things, what do you think? Im stuck in between givig her the space she needs and just contacting her and trying to straighten it out
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2012): Let her go. Its too much like hard graft. She went with someone else too. Its not like she was saving herself for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2012): I wouldn't waste my time, I would get on with my life, the relationship was already on and off and then she go and be with someone else, I would let her have that other guy.
That's what I would do.
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reader, Kyle007 +, writes (20 January 2012):
You are stuck in indecision because she is stuck in indecision.
Contact her if only to get closure on the matter. If she is seeing someone, forget it. You are on a road to trouble.
If she is free, and you are both willing to pursue a relationship again, I would make some real plans. There has to be some other goal than having a good time, some mutual game to play whether it is marrying and having kids, moving in and sharing living expenses, etc.
If a couple's only game they have is "I love you" then the game will eventually turn into "I hate you".
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