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writes: I'm lonely, what do i do?I'm 16 i've never even kissed a girl or been out on a date. Everyone at school, talks about girls, sex and experiences. I keep feeling depressed because i obviously don't look attractive and i've never met anyone. I go to an all boys school and have no friends who are girls what so ever. will i ever find someone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): Lies all Lies!!! That is one thing that you will learn is that men lie to impress other men or to not feel left out or feel like more of a stud. They stand around and tell tall tales of girls and sex, Yeah right!!! All of their stories sound soooo good that its almost to good to be true because its not. You will find a girl and connect. For GOD's sake you are only 16. You will find the right one and if not someone who will be more than happy to be with you. Patience is a virtue. Trust me you have plenty of time to sow those wild oats.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): It dont matter if u aint done wot ur mates have. In the long run u are not going 2 get any sexually transmitted infections. Trust me there's no rush. Sex anint fun! Girls will like a bf like you who they can trust and not expected just to have sex with. Wait 4 ur Miss right the time wil come.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (27 May 2006):
 There really isnt any rush. We all meet someone when the time is right. You dont need to go worrying about not meeting someone or having sex at this young age. Alot of your friends are just bragging, half probably havent come remotely close to what they are indeed harping on about. Lads like to feel the centre of attention and once one starts they all do. Have some patience, there is still plenty of time to find a girl, and one that you can have a special relationship with, and one that can lead to fulilment in lots of ways. There is more to life than what girl you can get off when when and where! Your time will come so dont fret.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2006): dude its ok that u havent done that yet! u will find some nice girl some day!
i have tons of guy friends that havent done any of that, i no its hard......but maybe your looking for the right girl in all the wrong places!
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