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*oeyanna9999
writes:HiI need a bit of advice!Met a colleague of my sisters for the first time yesterday, he's very cute, howeve everyone in the department, for various reasons, assumes he's gay, but I'm not so sure.As soon as I walked into the office he was very friendly (he shares a office with my sis so obviously kows who I am) asking me lots of questions but I noticed occasionally after he made certain comments, he would blush. At one point, after a couple of silly comments he said 'I'm not making a good impression am I?' then blushed and looked away again, busying himself with something on his computer screen and avoiding eye contact.I read this as a sign he was iterested but I'm not 100% sure, all I know is we talked as if we'd been friends for years.Help and thanks in advance for any advice given. Reply to this Question
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reader, Isegrimm  +, writes (2 January 2011):
Nothing to lose.
If he´s gay i don´t think he will be mad at you if you ask him if he´s interested in you. And if he´s not....
like i said nothing to lose
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reader, Joeyanna9999 +, writes (12 December 2010):
Joeyanna9999 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo answer the first reply, everyone only assumes he's gay as he's voluteered to be one of his work places lesbian and gay advocates but the other advocate is straight so says nothing, and its been a while since he had a girlfriend, I think from that they've just put 2 and 2 together but it doesn't necessarily mean it adds up to 4!
To answer the second reply, I've only met him the once though may need to pick his brains regarding something to do with my university course plus I'm going to be volunteering for the company he works for in the New Year so will be seeing more of him. I will be cautious though.
Thank for the advice : )
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reader, petina1 +, writes (12 December 2010):
 If the majority think that he is gay, then he could be, they know him better than you. Maybe he is out of his depth wanting to make a good impression with you because he knows your sister well. Knowing her well means that he thinks he knows you well and could be out of his comfort zone with conversations. Sometimes conversations that 'dry up' can be embarrassing. It may be just that whats making him blush. I don't know how old he is but someone in the age i'm looking at doesnt usually blush like that so maybe he is covering up what he's feeling or what he thinks your thinking. He obviously wants you to like him because of the way he is acting but he's rushing the getting to know you a bit i think.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): It does seem like he's into you.. he's all nervous and twitchy. Do you see him that often? You could try and keep in touch with him, but remember try not to get too into him - there's still a possibility he's gay.
Best of luck :]
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