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Every time we try to have sex it hurts her so I stop. What can be done?

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Question - (8 January 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

This isn't funny. It's true.

I'm experienced, she's a virgin.

We have 5 years between us and we are in our twenties.2 years together.

I'm an average guy, it's just everytime she said it was hurting her I backed off.

I want to have sex with her. She wants to have sex with me but it became a bit of a 'comedy clip' from a movie.

What do I do?

Every time I try It hurts her so I stop.

She's practiced with fingers and I can make her wet.

I don't want to hurt her

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A female reader, baybee-x-sparkii United Kingdom +, writes (8 January 2008):

baybee-x-sparkii agony auntif your at the oldest 12..and its hurting her then she obviously isnt ready. give it time

i dont think you should realy be having sex at teh age of 12 to be honest

[sorry if your not 12 and old enough :S]

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A female reader, alymarshall  +, writes (8 January 2008):

alymarshall agony aunttry using lubrucunt to help and take it slow she might feel wet but not be that wet try different positions to see if that help to ease the pain hope this helps x x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008):

I had this problem when i started having sex but now I'm fine with it.

What me and my boyfriend did was we had sex but he was really gentle. After a while the pain went and everything was fine. It might hurt her if you have sex again but it would only hurt when you put it in. Once it's in everything should be okay.

Hope it helps =]

xXx

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