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writes:When me and my boyfriend of a year argue, it is usually to do with him letting me down, but he always turns it round to be my fault. He either rings me to say we can't go out, or doesn't even bother ringing me. He's been doing this all year now, I love him so much but he always falls out with me. When I ask him why he does it and then it's always my fault. I'm getting sick of it now, and I've told him time and time again not to do it but he keeps on doing it. I love him more than anything now so I would find it really hard to finish him over this. Reply to this Question
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reader, shiraz +, writes (16 October 2008):
hiyah, if you carry on this way he will end up changing you as a person lowering you each time until its you apologising each time for something hes done, its unhealthy and you cant live like that! you need to talk to him tell him its unfair NOW leave it any later and it will just get worse, do it gentelly by telling him how much you love him and how it hurts you to say it but you dont always feel to blame and fell constantly defeated each time you row. each of us are independant people and have open minds and own opinions so its only fair thant you get a fair share! its better to sort things earlier on than leaving them to get worse, best of luck x :) hope all goes ok
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