A
male
age
36-40,
*eartBroken1234
writes:Hi All,Hey guys and girls, please help me out. I am in a situation where I need your opinion/help. So here is my storyI work in a organization for past 2 yrs . An year back I saw a girl who just sits at some distance from me . First time I saw her in the lift and developed an Instant liking for her(may be love at first sight) . I used to look at her (just for a few seconds) whenever I saw her in office. At first , she ignored me so I thought she aint interested and moved on.But after that I noticed she also started looking at me and so I thought she is also interested . I am a very shy person and didnt have guts to talk to her. But one of my close frnds and her room-mate works with the same team so I asked him to dig some information about her. I came to know that she is already committed and planning to get marry to that guy. I again moved on and tried forgetting her but the way she looks at me I feel she still has some interest in me . But knowing she is committed I never talked with her but inside I have very strong feelings for her which no matter how hard I try i cant get rid of that. Its not that I havent seen any more beautiful girl then her in my life but whenever I see her , I think she is the one. Nowdays I dont even checkout any other girl(previously i was just like any other guy :P) . Every time I see any girl no matter how beautiful she is my mind takes me to her and I always feel she is the best girl I have ever seen and is ideal for a girlfriend/wife.Now these days whenever she sees me she too gets a bit nervous and either starts looking down or looks away.My first question "Does she by any means interested in me" . Now the main problem is, she is switching job and moving to some other city (probably where her bf lives ) and soon will get married . The day since i have come to know this news I cant concentrate on my work (stupid I am) , sometimes I feel to tell her my feelings (I have never interacted with her so even if she would have been single her reply will be negative) but I just feel even she knows I have feeling for her..What to do ..please suggest. Shall I tell her my feelings . If yes how would she respond . One thing is , I have never been in any relationship and one thing i know about myself is I will always be one woman man ..But how to tell her :(((
View related questions:
shy Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2011): Take the courage and speak to her.If she says NO back off gracefully.
A
male
reader, HeartBroken1234 +, writes (26 June 2011):
HeartBroken1234 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPlease reply...need help
...............................
A
female
reader, sammy1986  +, writes (25 June 2011):
if when you make eye contact she looks away they may be a few reasons: 1 she likes you: 2 she is shy: 3 she may know you like her and is embarrassed. i would try talking to her while you still have chance before she moves away you have nothing to lose. good luck
...............................
|
