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writes:Straight to the point I can't keep it up during sex with my girlfriend. I think it started when I found out her ex was massive and it put sooo much pressure on me I nearly ended it. I then fell in love with her she's smart and sexy and loves me more than anyone EVA has. I don't want to lose her but she wants sex every day and I can't keep it hard it's killing me. Do I need to see someone to sort my head out or what? Please help me
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reader, Lmg +, writes (10 November 2010):
Lmg is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone so far I told her last nite and I'm going to see a doctor too. :)
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reader, turbine  +, writes (10 November 2010):
The problem is more physical than mental. Do you have a healthy lifestyle? The chances are not. So improve your lifestyle, do kegels, go out and jog everyday morning, do some Yoga and a little bit of titillation will make you erect like a horse.
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reader, RennieGeek  +, writes (10 November 2010):
Size doesn't matter! I've seen it all, done it all, and I've had good sex with all types/sizes. Don't worry about it because it will cause problems in bed, as you know. And honestly, massive penises can hurt. Most women I've known who have slept with a man with a large penis say it hurts them. So consider yourself blessed and one size fits all. :)
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reader, YouWish +, writes (10 November 2010):
 How did you find out her ex was "massive"? By the way, if he was such a massive specimen of a man who satisfied her every need and made her scream continually, she wouldn't be with you!
You're a good guy, and you have to regain your self-confidence. Your body never lies, even though you put on a brave face. If your girlfriend were to leave you, it would be because she would think you don't like her, not because she has an imaginary tape measure constantly comparing you to this ex who MUST be so much better than you are.
Give yourself some credit. I bet she has as much insecurity about baring herself body and soul to you as you do to her. You must not take on so much pressure, because it is the pressure and your insecurity that hinders your performance.
I would suggest seeing a doctor if things don't improve for you, and in the meantime, maybe explaining your troubles to your girlfriend will go a long way in curing them for you. She won't laugh at you. On the contrary, it may bring you closer together.
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