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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have been on several dates with a really nice girl and I can't really control getting an erection when I am around her (usually it is only when we are alone together). Sometimes it can be a hug, the way she looks at me, cuddling, holding my hand, or whatever. It doesn't seem to take much and just listening to her voice or thinking of her and there is nothing I can do about it. I just like her too much. Now I will say that I am not one to trying to rush things maybe because I am a little shy. Almost every response I have read from the women, says they would be flattered and complimented by someone being 'excited' every time they saw them.We really haven't known each other too long and I have not said anything about my problem(which really may not be a problem). My guess is that she has noticed and not said anything.I think my question has sort of been answered in another question here but I would like to hear more opinions. thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): She has probably noticed and it could be she is experiencing the same things. You could tell her you find her really attractive but wouldn't want to rush things, and see how she responds.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): You answered it yourself i think, most likely she'll just be flattered by it and it's certainly not a problem that i could see. Also its a good thing that even talking and listening to her arouses you, mostly likely means that you have a lot in common and have something interesting and fun to talk about, always much better than just a sexual desire based on looks alone.
Just take it at your own pace, but to be honest its unlikely that she hasn't notice. Also try and keep yourself from getting overly excited in inappropriate places, this could be seen as slightly irritating if it happened on a regular occurrence, but it seems your sorted as you said it mainly happens when its just the two of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): Just masturbate before seeing her. It might help.
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