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writes:Hi, I suffer with Erectile Dysfunction and I have all sorts of problems when trying to put on a condom. Its tearing my relationship apart, as my girlfriend and I find it frustrating and it seems to spoil her feelings for me. When we first got together she was really keen, but now she just lies there and doesn't take any initiative,I have only been having sex for 2 months, when it first started happening, i put it down to performance anxiety... but as time goes on I think the problem is ED. I don't know how to remedy the situation, but it is getting me really down.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice. we do oral and other stuff, but i don't ejaculate. I can only ejaculate when using my hand, which is a problem for her, as she thinks she can not satisfy me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2008): You are still very young and I think a little to harsh on yourself, give it a little more time before you consider Ed. Be more patient, try to relax with your girlfriend, have foreplay and just have some fun, teasing each other, if you feel less stressed and the anxiety levels are lower, you might surprise yourself and your girlfriend. Suggest to her that you avoid sex, as in penetration for a while, just go with the flow, you can surely still keep her happy in many other ways. Might be good for you both to experiment with oral sex and all the rest. Good luck and hope your problems will be over soon. Do take it easier! Mind over matter!
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reader, youwillhateme +, writes (6 June 2008):
ok, well first off you could see a doctor, obviously !
or, buy a c#ck ring, cos they kind of keep a normal erection harder for longer because they restrict the amount of blood leaving the penis. so you could try that. or try just holding the base of your penis quite firmly, and see if the blood stays in it :)
apart from that i'm out of ideas. but i would say, probably best to speak to a doctor, as there may be a medical reason for this, and he can help you. even if its a psychological reason, he can arrange help for this also :)
good luck :)
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