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I ended it with her, but even after a year and a half, I can't seem to move on...

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Question - (6 March 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 31 July 2006)
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I started going out with my ex when is was 17. She was my first love. We went out with each other for three and half years and looking back they where the best years of my life although we did split up once or twice.

I ended the relationship because I found out she was secretly E-mailing a male friend of hers and arranging for him to come to her house and visit. Because of this I used it as an excuse to end the relationship.

We tried to be friends and she would phone me begging to take her back but I declined thinking it was in both our interests. This didn't last long and now we have not spoken for over a year and a half. It's like she has vanished off the face of the planet.

I have not contacted her in all that time but have not been able to move on even though I have tried to convice myself so many times that I have. I dream about her on a regular basis.

How do I move on from this and stop if affecting my life?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2006):

you move on by realizing that shes an ex for a reason, there was something there that made you not want to be with her, realize that i this entire world of people theres someone better for you or maybe not the word better but more compatable, get out more and get out of your egg shell explore the world!!!!

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A reader, becky05 +, writes (2 July 2005):

You have to try and forget her. Every time you start to think about her, change the subject in your mind, if you keep doing this, eventually you will forget her, because lets face it, it doesnt sound like theres any future between you.

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