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Embarassed after anal sex!

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Question - (22 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 June 2010)
A female Trinidad and Tobago age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi am 29yr of age, an married, i have been for the last 11yrs.. but my husband got sick an he is bed reined. i recently got involed with a younger guy like 26yr of age an we have been seein each other for a yr.And he an i did tlk much about anal sex but jus did it an it felt good but normally it does be a clean situation if you no what i mean but recently we did an it wasn't nice heheheh cus i didn't prepare for it an it was messy. my point is that i felt really bad an i was embrassas i couldnt talk to him after that he was speechless too... what do you suggest i do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010):

i know this was not the question but speechless...well almost. your husband is bedridden and sick and you are worried about being embarrrassed with your boyfriend because of messy anal? honey there is more mess in your life than there is clean. you know i really cant believe this is a true post. 1)what did it matter that you were married or had a bedridden husband..i think that was for shock value. 2) you had anal and it was nice and felt good? excuse me but ...not unless you had done it several time. and if that is the case you should know about how it works. you sound like a fake to me and a male to boot. in fact i think ive answered something somewhere for you before. if not then i dunno...this alerts my spidey senses. mal

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010):

It happens if you don't prepare yourself. It's happened with my boyfriend and I a few times. It's normal to feel embarrassed about the situation. I mean come on, he's putting something up a hole that is normally an exit, not an entrance. You just gotta laugh it off.

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