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Double Standards: Cross Dressing and Intersex Relationships

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Article - (19 November 2012) 2 Comments - (Newest, 21 November 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, throese writes:

Cross Dressing:

Well, I really don't understand this double standard. Women wear men's clothes all the time and never get talked down to or badly about it. A man does it, and his whole life is pretty much over. Not many people realize how much the world has changed in the last 200 years. Women wear men's clothes and sometimes men wear women's clothes. Big freaking deal! So what? Doesn't mean a man is any less masculine or that a woman is any less feminine. Also, there is NOTHING wrong with a man shopping for his girlfriend/fiance/wife's clothing. Honestly, I feel that it's a GOOD thing we do that. Why?

Well, let me put it this way - Fellas, say your girlfriend wants to look real sexy for you tonight, and has a few outfits in mind from her current selection, but wants something new. Well, yes, you COULD tell her what to get. But, why do that when you can go out and get the outfit yourself for her. It shows that you really care about her and what she thinks and feels. As well as showing that you just don't give a damn as to what the world thinks, because all that matters is that you and your partner are happy with each other and the relationship. =D

Intersex:

There are children being born with one set or both sets of genitalia. Boys born with female private organs and girls being born with male private organs or in rarer cases, born with both. They stand outside of the "normal" crowd and get picked on because they're "different". Okay, so what if they have different private areas, screw off. They didn't choose to be born this way. They are still human and have feelings too. Just because he might have female private organs and she might have male private organs, doesn't mean that they are any less human than you and I are.

Would I date a woman whose intersex, whether she has just male parts or BOTH male and female? Yes, I honestly would. Doesn't make me any less of anything. As I've stated things are changing...more and more each day.

For the folks of the older generation, please, try to understand as best you can and don't judge your children because they have different preferences in who they choose to date, their sexual orientation, or what they're into.

My point is, we don't have the right to judge each other. That right belongs to whichever deity one chooses to believe in (being respectful to all religions). All you can do is raise your children to the best of your abilities, hope that they have the values that you raised them on, and pray for the best.

I hope that everyone has a wonderful day/night. ^_^

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A male reader, throese United States +, writes (21 November 2012):

throese is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I didn't tag it as a "Bug Question". Site mods did, but awesome, finally someone posted a response! =D

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A female reader, Euphoric29 Germany +, writes (20 November 2012):

Hi dear,

Well, I don't know if you actually posed a question or if this is just a statement, but I agree.

Freedom and happiness to all crossdressers, intersexual people and everybody else :)!

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