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writes: Hi I am in love with a guy who is in a relationship.I am married myself, but we have been talking of breaking up. I have been married for 22 years now and he has been in a relationship for 3 years. They are living together,He has problems with anxiety and has said he loves the girl he is with, but only because she looked after him when he went through a bad time with his anxiety. He don't work and she is the provider in the house. He is always telling me he doesn't find her very sexual because she was there thru his illness. Says she is more like a best friend now. He totally depends on her for everything, because of his anxiety but has been seeing me on and off, he tells me he loves me but can't leave her. Am I wasting my time? Should I call it a day? Our relationship has been going on for a year now. The thing is I suffer with anxiety too. We understand each other, the chemisty between us is amazing. I have never felt this way before so think it could be real love. I am so messed up now because I know we were meant to be together. Do you think it would be worth me waiting around or to leave them be? I feel guilty because of this girl but just am so in love it's hard to end it. Crystal
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reader, becky05 +, writes (18 July 2005):
I dont think he wants to leave his current girlfriend because she supports him financially. If he did not have some feelings for her, he wouldnt still be staying with her.
I think you would be wise to forget this man.
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