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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met a guy about a month ago at a party, and we hit it off right away. He asked for my number when he left, and over the next few weeks we were constantly emailing and texting each other. it was typically him that contacted me first, but I really enjoyed it. A few weeks ago, we finally had a chance to hang out-I went over to his apartment and we just watched movies with his roommate and played guitar together and listened to music. I ended up staying the night because we drank too much tequila, but nothing happened. It was nice, simple night. The next week I received messages from him at least once a day, and we'd have convos via text and sometimes just called each other. I went to his place again that next weekend, and his roommates were gone so it was just us. We mostly just drank tea and listened to music and talked..a lot. We made out, and it didnt go any farther than that, but it was pretty intense, and AMAZING. I felt a great connection with him physically and in just in general.The next week I heard from him all the time, and he told me how excited he was to see me again the upcoming weekend. We made plans to go to ann arbor together over break, and do a partner yoga class, and a few other things.The next weekend I went over after work around 1 am. We didnt do much but have tea and talk and go to bed. We made out a lot, but again not much else happened. Since that night, which was a week ago, I havent heard from him AT ALL. at all at all. Which wouldnt be a big deal, except its confusing when compared to how often I used to hear from him before. I sent him a message a few days ago to see how hes been, and he just said hed been really stressed and didnt know why. and that was it.I guess my question is...does the complete silence on his end mean that he's pretty much done and isnt in to me at all anymore? I know hes really busy, but he used to message me from work all the time, and if nothing else I'd get at least one nice text from him a day. We havent made any plans to see each other again or anything. I am so into this guy, and it's driving me crazy. If he hasnt contacted me at ALL this past week, after weeks of messaging/talking often and some intimate times hanging out, does that mean he's just done? should I just move on and get over it?
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