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*objo666
writes:a few weeks ago, a girl came up to me who i didn't know and just started to talk to me. we got on really well swapped numbers and everything and we went out a few times. she kept telling me how much she liked me and how she really wanted to be with me. so, i asked her out, she said yes and seemed really happy. then, we go out once more and she tells me the day after that she thinks we rushed into it too quickly and she isn't ready for a relationship. i asked her if i should move on and she said she doesn't know because anything could happen but she doesn't want to be in a relationship at the moment because she doesn't want to hurt me or get hurt. but i think i have feelings for her and i don't really want to let her gowhat is going on? should i move on or wait for her?thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2009): I have to agree with sarah. Wait a couple of weeks and see whats happening,If nothings changed move on. She kinda sounds abit like my cousin only i KNOW shes someone who dont know what she wants, meets loads of good guy and leaves them confused on where they stand. Within that time shes just desiding who shes gonna pick out of all the guys. (she aint a tart i give her that much, coz she aint slept with any of them) but its still wrong! I really do hope this aint the case for you. ;)
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reader, Sarah:)  +, writes (30 November 2009):
 Wait, but don't wait too long. Give her a couple weeks or so, then move on. You don't need a wishy-washy person in your life.
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