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writes:Does my internet boyfriend really love me?I know I'm doubting him. We've been going out for almost 2months now. He's 15 and I'm 13 1/2.I tell him I'm not good enough for him, and he responds with hearts (3) and says stuff like "You're the only girl I want" or "I'm lesbian for girls...Specifically you." (Okay, that was kinda funny :P) "Don't make me come up there and kiss you to death." This all seems real sweet and all, but does he really love me?We video chat all the time (by all the time I mean at least twice to three times a week). He tells me I'm gorgeous or that I'm beautiful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2012): Hai I wrote this question.
Okay, so thanks for all your answers. One of them said "Most real life 15 year old boys won't date a 13 year old.". Just fyi, i know some boys (ages 14-16) dating girls my age. Plus I've heard stories from family members (I.e-cousins, uncles, etc).
I know all adults say "You're too young to understand love." or "He doesn't love you. He probably only has a crush on you." or "This is just puppy love." Well, honestly, I don't think you know what you're talking about. No offence, but I'm entitled to my own opinion, right?
He tells me he loves me alot. I believe him. Do I think he loves me like he wants to be with me for life (Marriage)? No. At least not yet.
He and I are more mature than you might think we are, and I feel one day we may make something of this. We're very close, and one time I hadnt emailed him in 3 weeks. He thought I'd dumped him and he was very distant. When I told him I didn't, he was overjoyed and kept telling me he loved me.
He only has my email.
Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2012): It's hard to know whether he loves you or not, as we don't know much about him or how you two are with each other. I agree that perhaps it's puppy love, but it's unfair to say that he doesn't based on your age alone - everything happens to people at different times. I fell inlove with my boyfriend at 16, and 10 years later I'm still in that position.
Also - yes, it is possible to fall inlove over the internet. Love isn't all about physically touching or kissing. It's about more than that. It's about a deep connection emotionally. Of course it's also a physical connection. But it doesn't mean it can't happen.
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reader, psychic fiona +, writes (30 October 2012):
 this is called puppy love, your very young and also he, and you both think that you are but your not its very hard to fall in love on a computer it helps being in person to touch ,feel,and kiss, its different so hes not in love and either are you.
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reader, TomWilkinson  +, writes (30 October 2012):
 I don't intend for this to sound callous, but even if you were "real life" boyfriend and girlfriend, at your age, the odds are very very slim that you really love each other.
Raging hormones and infatuation are always confused for love during puberty and often well into the teenage years.
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