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writes:I need help please this is really upsetting me. My best friend (male) has a boyfriend (also male). My best friend began to tell me a few days ago that he missed me and regretted leaving me because things were going bad with him and his boyfriend. He began to get bored and feel left out when he was out with his boyfriends mates. His boyfriend wouldn't let him go out with his friends, but he was ok to go out with his own. Yesterday my best friend came round to my house for the first time in months and he told his boyfriend was boring. Later that day he decided to finish it with his boyfriend and he said to me he would be spending more time with me. This morning I woke up and found out he had deleted me on msn and he had been online (when it doesn't show it on mine, but I had my old email open too). I phoned him and asked him about this and he said he hadn't been online and that he had made up with his boyfriend and he came to his house. He said he would ring me back when he had done something and he hasn't rang me back. Im really upset because Its just like I was the person who was there whilst he was going through a ruff patch and now im not needed please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2008): it sounds like to me that your best friends boyfirend is controlling your best friend. he wont let your friend go out with his friends? thats not right at all. i would not take it personally at all. but tahts what it sounds liek to me. and you could have posibly been deleted off of msn by your friends boyfriend.. the boyfriend might feel threatened by you because you are his best friend and he wants the attention to himself and no one in the way..
does it make sense to you?? this has happened to me before where my boyfriend took my cellphone and actualy deleted my contacts so i could nottalk to some of my friends. i dont really know what to tell you about fixing it just go with the flow and let everythign take its course. it will work out in the end and just be there for you best friend when he needs you :). he is confused right now and it is not an easy situation to stop.. trust me i have been there done that because i was like your best friend in this situation... good luck :)
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reader, Missappletree +, writes (16 August 2008):
I know how you feel about being needed so much, and then thrown to the back burner when someone new turns up. It sounds like your friend is having a confusing time at the moment. Had your best friend only recently decided he liked males? Or had it been a long time?
It's lovely to hear that somebody cares so much, and i spose all you can do at the moment is be there for him if he needs it, but let him know that what he's doing hurts, and that he needs to be there for you too.
Good luck!
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