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Does he really fancy me... or is he just winding me up?

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Question - (3 March 2005) 12 Answers - (Newest, 2 December 2008)
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I am trying to work out whether my husband's friend fancies me or just 'winding me up' by flirting. He's a nice guy but I am very careful not to give too much eye contact in case he gets the wrong idea.

When we have been out a few times, he has either winked at me, mirror my body language, encourages me to get drunk and calls me darling or sweetie when on the phone which my husband's other friends don't, makes occasional innuendo in front of me which doesn't bother me. He even for a laugh wanted to go to the local supermarket with me to go and weigh something after we had had a joke about it one evening and told me that was my mission. When I mentioned it again on the telephone a week later I thought he would tell me he was only joking/winding me up but he still insisted on doing it as we could have 'a right laugh' - luckily we never did go and do this.

I don't know where he is coming from as I do playfully joke and tease with my husband's other friends with no problems as they do it with me - but I cannot understand this guy. Can anyone help on this one.

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A male reader, stealthmode666 United Kingdom +, writes (2 December 2008):

I don.t know what kind of relationship you have with your husband but he has a right to know this person is saying and doing this.

Is he prepared to marry you and love you for the rest of your life?

What about your relationship with your husband?

Is this over?

He wants sex all right and you should see this. Flirting can be dangerous and you should just ask him what his intentions are instead of stringing him along because as long as you keep this up you are playing up to him and his ways.

The second you had a thought about his intentions was the second you should have nipped this in the bud.

Hope this helps?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2008):

He wants to take this further and have sex with you! And he's doing everything possible to put this idea in your mind.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007):

Plain & simple, I think he fancies you & being a married woman he also probably sees you as a challenge!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007):

i think you should just ask him

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2007):

well .. i kinda like this boy but i have no idea why!

I seen him around school and stuff but ive never talked to him since 1 week ago. he tries to annoy me, is he flirting with me?

i dont know whether he is or hes rli trying to annoy me?

please help meh :)xxxxxxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2007):

What you should be concerned about is not whether this guy fancies you but instead why are you so interested in finding out? Why are you so bothered whether he fancies you or not?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2006):

well if you dont no try and do a little flirting it will help things along or send him a txt or talk 2 him on msn if he has it or just pluch up the currage and ask him what have you got 2 loose or ask a mate who you no is good mates with him to find out for u if he doesnt like you then hes not worth it just go for it lifes to shore to wait around just get in there girl

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2006):

ive liked this boy for a long time and ive got with him but i dont no if he fancy me because when hes with his mate he seams alot different so is it love?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2005):

What you should really be thinking about is not "does he fancy me" But "do i care if he does" he is a married man and by rights untouchable if he trys it on with you say on thing and one thing only NO ! affairs are messy and tangled and can affect all of the family.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2005):

I think he is just trying his luck. Maybe he finds it exciting or fun but dont fall for it if u dont want an affair.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2005):

yer i agree, why does it matter if this guy fancies you? if you dont fancy him then it ont matter, but it depends what type of a guy he is, do you think he would try it with you, if so i think you should tell your husband about it and ask what he thinks. your married, it shouldnt matter whether another bloke fancies you!

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A reader, Seun Osewa, writes (5 March 2005):

Why do you care if he fancies you? Do you want him to fancy you? If you're not interested in an extra-marital affair, does it really matter whether he fancies you or not?

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