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writes:Question to all of my cyber cupid angels. The guy I have been seeing for the last eight months called me in the middle of the night-after a night of drinking- and told me he had to tell me something he never has before. "I am falling for you and I want to be able to love you openly. I am going to make a clean break-he lives 3 time zones away - I am moving to your state.I love you. Does he really or is it the alcohol speaking? He does not drink regularily. Give me your thoughts. Reply to this Question |
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (28 December 2008):
 i agree with the other posts, you can't be sure about this,but i think him being drunk was just an excuse to tell you what he feels,and if you reject him then he'll have the excuse that he was drunk and didn't mean it..you know thinking about it,how could a drunk man find your number even if it's saved on his phone,now i might be wrong about this,he might have been joking,anyways talk to him,just get things clear,courage my friend:D
hope you'll get the answer you want to hear from him,if you don't ask you won't know,maybe he was trying to give you a hint,just a first step,maybe not,he only knows the answer..
take care:Dtell us what happens next byeXXX
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reader, lilgirly +, writes (28 December 2008):
i agree with the other posts, you can't be sure about this,but i think him being drunk was just an excuse to tell you what he feels,and if you reject him then he'll have the excuse that he was drunk and didn't mean it..you know thinking about it,how could a drunk man find your number even if it's saved on his phone,now i might be wrong about this,he might have been joking,anyways talk to him,just get things clear,courage my friend:D
hope you'll get the answer you want to hear from him,if you don't ask you won't know,maybe he was trying to give you a hint,just a first step,maybe not,he only knows the answer..
take care:Dtell us what happens next byeXXX
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (28 December 2008):
 I would ask him to repeat it when he is sober so okay maybe he needed the drink to give him the courage in the first place these three little words don't come rolling of the tongue so easy for some! Tell him you need to hear them again just to be sure you were hearing right! PLus the fact he called you in the middle of the night maybe he had been building up the courage to say this! What is he making a clean break from?
Gina
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): When under the influence of drink, many people say many things they wouldn't dream of saying when they're sober. It's difficult to analyse whether he's serious or not, so the best advice I could give is to talk to him when he's sober and ask him if he remembers what he said to you, and if he did, did he mean it or was he just having a laugh?
There's every chance that the alcohol loosened his tongue and gave him enough Dutch courage to tell you what really was on his mind, but once the booze has worn off you should get to the truth if you're receptive to his suggestions.
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