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writes:hi all, heres my situation i met a guy recently and at a place where me and my mates meet up for a drink and he was a new house mate of one of my friends. By this time we had mooved on to another pub, and me and this guy and his brother (cause his brother had the car) stayed later and just kept on talking, playing pool ... usual stuff, and just generally having a good time and both this guy and i said that it had felt like we had known eachother for ages and we just clicked.Now then.. his brother took me home me not realising that i had left my stupid key in the house and had no other way of getting in. so... i went back to his house which was to far away from my house, that i could ever imagin and was completly out of my way, but needed a place to sleep.....("ha ha fate right" an expression he used) In the car journey we joked around how i would sleep in the cupord (him and his bro and parents were in) but we both secretly knew that that wasnt gunna be the case. I liked this guy so i didnt have a problem of sleeping in the same bed with him and was hoping that he would make the first moove, and he did!! which i was happy about. the next morning we added eachother on facebook (my phone and his phone was dead with battery) and his bro kindly took me home again when i contacted my house mates to let me in..... the next couple of days we had been talking not to much, but here and there, on fb, and got eachothers numbers. and i asked him "are you going to the pub this week? i am but im only staying for 1 ?" and he replied "yep see you there xx ".......................................................the following mates gathering at the pub (with him there) (sorry its long lol ......................................................we were both there, him and me so that was a start but then when i started talking to him he was being really shy about it and not being like he was yesturday when him and i were talking and first met. i then said to him "right im gunna go" and he said "no dont go" but blanked me the whole evening after i stayed for a bit longer, and eventually i just left and said bye to him, cause i couldnt b botherd to waite for him to come up and talk to me after ive tried so hard.so hear i am now asking a couple of questions of.... what do you guys this sitituation is all about? and do you think that he does actually like me and should i play it cool and not go to the next mates gathering? or am i even thinking to fast and hes not even thinking of a rel yet? veiws please very confused on what the next step should bethanks
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reader, bharathi1435  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 hi friend.. i understand your situation. you fell in love with him. i think your imaginion is too fast. slow down your feelings. please wait until he contacts you. dont rush in expressing your feeling.stay calm. let him make the first move until he approaches you dont tell about what you think on ur mind about him. one question?,I liked this guy so i didnt have a problem of sleeping in the same bed with him and was hoping that he would make the first moove, and he did!!?what is the meaning of this line?. did you have sexual relations
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reader, charmzx5  +, writes (25 February 2010):
 well sweety im going to tell you the honest truth he got what he wanted from you which was sex once you give some one your all they sumtimes tend to take advange and act differently because they already got what they wanted...i think you should still be friens with him but act as if you don't care like if he asks you are you going to pud you can say "sorry i have plans this week im going to be busy most likely i wont be going because im going to be very busy"(say it in a claim nice and happy tone not on fb or myspace say it on the phone or in person) and if he asks you to hang out deny him a few times tell him your busy or have plans and that will make him want you more because when you push a guy away they seem to want you back i dont know why they just do after denying him 3 times say yes and spend time with him as a friend don't do no more a friend wouldn't do unless you know he is commited to being in a relationship with you (sorry i wrote a lot lol)
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