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writes: Hello its me again! i recently asked you all about this guy (who is my sort of mate) whom i think fancies me. Well anyway, we all went out clubbing on saturday night and he was standing close to me all night, i was playing on one of those game things that they have in some of the clubs and he was stood right behind me so that his body was touching me, it felt so nice! and then we all ended up going back to his house (as he lives in a house with a few of our other mates) and we were all just sat around chatting and he started tickling my feet and stuff, does this seem like flirting or am i mistaking friendship for something more? i mean, were not the best of friends but we do get on really well and we all go out at the weekends together. Do you think i am looking to far in to this or does it sound like he likes me more than a friend?? im a bit confused, i know i should ask him but i need to know if he feels the same first before i ask him if you know what i mean. Do you think it sounds like he does? i am a 20 year old young lady but when i am around him i feel like a 16 year old girl again! the butterflies are unreal! please give me some advice.
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (19 December 2005):
 Hello wake up! This is blatant flirting at it's finest. I would never touch my friends feet or tickle them without the thought of flirting. I may not act upon the sexual side of it but I would definately be flirting if I did it. Your response towards him should be the same play as him. Tickle him and brush up against him. This sort of behavoir is also FUN in the beginning of a relationship. He needs to learn how to flirt and you don't need to ask him what he's thinking or trying to do. You two are young and it will evolve over time. I say for now just let him lead and you follow; make sure your boundries are fully in tact before it goes farther than you want it to. Have a great time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2005): I think it's pretty obvious that he's flirting. But first you need to decide what you want from him. Just sex? Or do you want more. You should get clear on this and decide before you go any further. Then the two of you can decide what you both want mutually.
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reader, codesa +, writes (19 December 2005):
Dear Angel
It sounds like he might be flirting but i think if he really likes you he will let you know or even act on his feelings, girl wait until he makes the first move incase you might have misread his intentions as boys have a way of miscommunicating how they really feel and you definately dont want to sell your self cheap, you say you really like him then make the efford of waiting so that if something does happen, it starts with good intentions as well as true, becarefull not to fall in the trap of lust as you are still young and have alot to still learn. Good Luck!!!! Remember Think before you Leap it can cost you.
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