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anonymous
writes:i am so hurt,i cant get over how my partner could be heartless.we had a serious row how yet again he degraded me in public,focusing his attention on a female dancing instead of me,even moved away from me so he had a full view,we exchanged words and left on the way home we stopped at a petrol station, i then got out and walked off, he drove up beside me and asked if i was getting in,i said no so he drove off.after 5mins had passed by he hadnt returned it was -4 in freezing fog and 2am,i decided that i had to go back to the petrol station as i was endangering myself,i finally got home at 3:15,but whilst out on the street he txt me and said i had his cash card i couldnt believe all he thought about was money,not me on a cold freezing foggy night,does he hate me that much to not care if i was dead or alive if i was ok or even home with our son.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007): If he had physicaly forced you into the car,would you have got him arrested for abduction? You sound like you should take this as a lesson,you cut off your nose to spite your face. You was being difficult because you were jealous. It backfired on you. Had you been drinking?Should imagine its not the first time,and he`s probably used to it by now anyway. Grow up !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): i am quite disturbed by this,how could he not return to you on such a cold late night,thats easily done when you dont give a damn any decent guy would have ensured you got home safely no matter what disagrement you had earlier,and may i say you was a foolish girl to leave the car in the first place,hope this was a wake up call and you find yourself a guy whom will respect love and respect you
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reader, cd206 +, writes (5 February 2007):
 I think he just wanted to give you some space to blow off some steam. Guys aren't perfect. Sometimes they look at other women or porn or whatever and it's not because they don't love us, just because they don't see it in the same way as us. Whereas we see it as blatant evidence that they don't like us as much as we like them, they see it all as a bit of harmless fun. He did try and give you a lift home but it sounds like you were too hurt and that he just decided not to push it. I think maybe it's a little melodramatic to suggest he doesn't care if you're dead or alive. It was just a row that got out of hand. If you both learn to compromise a little I'm sure all will be fine in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): You walked off after he asked you to get in. You had the choice. Are you really between 41-50? You come across as someone with the mental age of 16.It sounds like your partner has got his hands full.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007): he probably or probably doesn't hate you he just might be cheating on you or just using you to get attention either way just get him and talk to him ok love xxx christmas... by the way i may be 13-15 i am 14 yrs old and you may think i don't know what i am talking about i gave advice to a 18-21 year old female so i do know what i am talking about ok good luck bye
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