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*earbear
writes:I used to really like this guy, lets call him A. We weren't exactly close at the time and he somehow heard that I really liked him and things started to become awkward. (I'm at school, so you know how it is, not even speaking for a whole hours lesson when we sat next to eachother)Eventually I grew out of the phase of liking him, went out with another guy but it didn't last.Now all of a sudden, he flirts with me so much, reminds me that I used to fancy him (many times, it's like he's proud of it) I even said to him that he mentions that all the time and he goes 'yeah i'll never forget it', he touches my hands, my hair, etc just casually and uses the most lame chat up lines you could think of and now I can't help but reject him all the time because I think he's only messing about and testing me to see if I fancy him.Why didn't he make the move ages ago when he knew I liked him? Why now? I have a feeling he's like this with many girls because he sometimes flirts with my best friends right in front of me but not as much as he flirts with me... Is he a player?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010): My darling, it couldn't be more obvious that he likes you. He wouldn't be paying you so much attention and trying to make you jealous if he didn't. Guys change around girls they fancy, usually behaving like jerks around their mates when they see you, but lovely when you're alone together. Ask him out, if you haven't already. He's bound to say YES PLEASE!!! If he doesn't know your worth, then he really is a fool.Rosie
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reader, hmae89  +, writes (13 March 2010):
Most likely a player. DO NOT fall for this! If you stop giving a guy attention and stop showing interest, they will miss it and want it even more. They just want the attention and not the girl. Especially, if he flirts with your friends in front of you that's a big sign he is a player. You can do much better! :)
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 He is like fishing in the sea and waiting to see which fish will bite his bait. He likes and enjoys flirting and if he is not into any relationships yet, we cannot say that he is a player.
He could be shy or do not have the courage to response to you when you liked him. Now that you have broken off with another guy, he saw another opportunity to get cozy with you .
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