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Does anyone find French Kissing weird or are you ok with it? (done right)

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Question - (28 February 2008) 12 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, *nbound88 writes:

Does anyone on here NOT like to French Kiss? I have met some people who don't like to and I find that pretty disturbing and weird. I am talking GOOD, sensual, non-sloppy kissing when each partner has clean teeth and good breath. This can be during foreplay and sex or whenever. I find just a "peck" something I would give to a family member. It just doesn't "fit" to give this to a lover unless you are on the way out the door in the morning or pressed for time. What do you think?

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A female reader, Ravenbeauty United States +, writes (14 December 2011):

Well, for me, the French kiss is the dealbreaker. If done good, I'll keep dating you, if done bad, sorry, lose my number! Seriously, if a dude isn't good at kissing, he probably sux in the sack, too.

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A female reader, KrissyA Canada +, writes (1 March 2011):

KrissyA agony auntI was searching for this exact question so i know im not the only one. Cuz me and my bf were at a movie last night and we were kissing and then he moved into french kissing (as usual with us) and its not that i dont like him enough to french kiss him it just is weird for me personally. Im glad that im not alone

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A female reader, barbie03 United States +, writes (14 October 2008):

I'm 20 years old and I hate french kissing. I think the feeling is so gross. I love to open mouth kiss without tongue, and JUST ABOUT any other sexual act, but not french kissing.

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A female reader, Boi Germany +, writes (26 March 2008):

What's disturbing about not liking French kisses? People are putting their tongue into someone else's mouth. I think that's pretty disturbing. I can sort of get the desire to do disgusting things when you're very aroused, but people seem to actually like it, which is totally beyond me.

So, here I am - I hate French kissing and everything that goes with it. I do understand if people say they like the sensation of lips tickling on their skin or their lips tickling because they touch someone else, but I can get the same sensation when kissing someone's cheek or hands. I don't need to drink their saliva for that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008):

I love french kissing. It's sexy and intimate, and I agree, pecks are either for a family member, or when you're running out the house when you're late for work.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008):

I hate French kissing. It disgusts me beyond many other things. I have been in two completely average, wonderful relationships (one girl, one boy) and in both cases realised after a few weeks that, while in the beginning the kisses were necessary to signify that there was actually a relationship going on, not just a friendship, I actually disliked the sensation. Never mind whether or not the mouth is clean (though that can make it less bad). It is the actual kissing that grosses me out.

I have no idea whether this is normal, but there are no hints that I have some sort of psychological disorder or problems with sex in general or something. It just seems to be my preference.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2008):

Hi. I just found this question, so I hope you will check back.

Anyway, I find it very sensual and always have. My wife also likes it very much if done right. Doing it right is not trying to stuff ones tongue as far into the others mouth as possible (Sorry Toasty, but that is just our opinion). Doing it right is gently rubbing tongues and rubbing against the others teeth a little at times. We don't care if it's sloppy or not. I don't recall ever having a gf who did it wrong, but my wife remembers one bf who just tried to shove his tongue as far into her mouth as he could and she hated kissing him.

We also agree that french kissing is nice anytime, not just when having sex. For instance, we sometimes do it standing in the kitchen in the middle of the day. We also think that a peck has its place, like when just saying "I love you" with a peck on the cheek or the lips.

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A female reader, unbound88 United States +, writes (29 February 2008):

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unbound88 agony auntWell I had in mind just what I asked but for some reason only 2 people thought it was interesting enough to respond. I really appreciate it though. This topic weighs heavily on my mind so I thought it might for a LOT of other people but I guess not so much. Anyway thanks again for your responses.;-

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A female reader, scythe Australia +, writes (29 February 2008):

scythe agony auntThat's alright, it's what we're here for. What exaclty did you have in mind when you asked this question?

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A female reader, unbound88 United States +, writes (28 February 2008):

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unbound88 agony auntThanks for the two people who responded. I wish I would have gotten more responses! But you 2 were great - thanks again.

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A female reader, scythe Australia +, writes (28 February 2008):

scythe agony auntA while ago, I absolutely hated french kissing. I didn't get turned on or enjoy it at all. However, I do like it now if it is with a guy I love and care for. So I supose you could say that I only like french kissing if there is an emotional connection.

Everyone has different tastes. Some people love to cuddle and some people hate it. Personally, I find cuddling way better than kissing. But then again, it varies depending on the person you are with at the time.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2008):

I think that frenching in all aspects is very sexy. Weather its 'perfect', sloppy, deep-throat, count me in. I love kissing.

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