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anonymous
writes:Hello everyone.I would love to hear some opinions.We all know that females tend to get attached to the man they lose their virginity to.BUT on the flip side.... Do men get attached to a virgin when she loses her virginity to HIM?I have been wondering about this...Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (3 August 2013):
 No I don't think so, and I was never attached to my first lover. It was awful sex, and I regret losing it with him.
I think people get attached if there are genuine emotions involved, even if it's not your first time. Getting attached has nothing to do with virginity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2013): No, not because she's a virgin anyway. If anything he'll more likely to be put off by the crap first time sex.
But you can't generalize that way really.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (2 August 2013):
 No. But he may feel attached if he lost his virginity to her. However it depends on the person. Not every woman gets attached to the one she first has sex with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2013): well, I certainly have, men always want to be their first one and hopefully the only one. in my opinion I would say yes if the relationship is legit. there's is a strong bond when there is real love. I was on a relationship with a girl for about 5 years and I was her first one, sadly it ended up badly but I was very attached to her. I'm 35 now and I had the luck of finding an awesome girl a couple of years ago, I was her first and we have a strong bond. I'd like to marry her. ;)
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