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writes: Hi.I'm 16 and although i really want to have sex, and i think i'm ready for it i have one problem.I'm not afraid that i'm going to bleed or that it will hurt, but i'm scared and embarassed that my boyfriend will be disgusted if i bleed.Any advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, *plac* +, writes (16 November 2008):
*plac* is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you guys for the feedback, it has been very helpful
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): The answer is no. He shouldn't be disgusted by a natural happening. A towel would solve all about the cleanliness. You should think much better about whether you want to take this step because it should not be an impulse! If you are this worried before the act, you are not emotionally and mentally ready. You should be able to talk about sex and your feelings in a relaxed manner and not feel inadequate in any way but instead you are overwhelmed with embarassment and negative thoughts are swarming in your head. There is no need to rush, I can tell you that. Document firstly in order to know what to expect, as you know more you should feel safer and more prepared, you can as well read about other people's first experiences and necessarily about the possible consequences and how to take proper precautions. My advice is to wait for now. Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): If it's your boyfriend than he won't care as long as he knows it's your first time and he's not all suprised by it or somthing. I popped my ex girlfriend's cherry and she was embarrassed but I think it's ok because it's just natural. Hope this helps.
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