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hi.my nickname here is *plac*.i'm 17 years old,full of questions and some relationship problems(like we all teens face) and i turned to this site because i needed advice from people that i didn't know,just so that i could see another point of view.:

I find oral sex incredibly boring!

Q.   I have been with my partner for 5 years now..and recently he has been asking me to give him oral alot. I dont mind doing it, because i love him and want to satisfy him, but i find it incredibly boring (he says he enjoys it when i do it) but is there ...

A.   30 May 2009: I myself find oral sex kind of boring, so what I do when I'm with my boyfriend is trying to make as less mechanical as possible. I tease him a lot with kissing, licking and biting his body in general, so it comes off more naturally when I give him ... (read in full...)

Does a guy get disgusted when you lose your virginity and bleed?

Q.   Hi. I'm 16 and although i really want to have sex, and i think i'm ready for it i have one problem. I'm not afraid that i'm going to bleed or that it will hurt, but i'm scared and embarassed that my boyfriend will be disgusted if i bleed. Any advi...

A.   16 November 2008: thank you guys for the feedback, it has been very helpful ... (read in full...)

How do I get him to cum on me?

Q.   Is it wierd for a girl my age (18) to be thinking about her bf "finishing on her"?.... lately I've been thinking about this A LOT after I gave him head, the first time he wanted to cum in privacy and I didn't think of it much but now I really want ...

A.   16 November 2008: It's normal to have fantasies like this, and trust me men love that. If you tell your boyfriend that you want him to cum on you he would be thrilled and happy to oblige!... (read in full...)

I always go for guys that are 5 to 10 years older than me!

Q.   I'm a teenager, and it seems like the only males i'm attracted to, is one that are either 5-10 years older than me, or men that are married. Of course i wont risk acting on my feelings, but i can't seem to be attracted to guys my age. They are so ...

A.   16 November 2008: Hey there.. I'm 17 and trust me the same thing happens with me. The truth is that girls mature faster than boys, so with most guys our age being immature and ridiculous, it is normal to be attracted to older guys. Just don't go for someone too old ... (read in full...)

I can't ask her to be my gf because she's skinny and I'm fat.

Q.   I have a crush on this girl, but I don't know if I can ask her to be my girlfriend. I can't tell my mom and dad, because they would just say "my baby is in love." I try to ask her out on Fridays, but I'm just too nervous. I mean she's skinny and I'm ...

A.   16 November 2008: Darling, weight and appearance have nothing to do with it! Try to get to know this girl, talk to her, be nice and funny. And then ask her out. You have nothing to lose. Trust me, how much you weigh is not an important factor in a relation... (read in full...)

I'm only 13 and nervous about having sex - I don't want babies!

Q.   i think im ready to have sex, but i dnt kno yet because babys cuz along wit it, but my boyfriend is waiting on me. so wat should i do im only 13?...

A.   16 November 2008: I believe that you should have sex only if you feel ready, but truly ready. Don't let others affect your choices, consider YOUR feelings. Also be sure that the person you want to have sex with cares about you and is willing to wait or go slow until ... (read in full...)

Fallen for an older guy. Could it happen?

Q.   Hi everyone. I have an issue and i think i could use some feedback, and i'd also like some advice from men. I'm 17 and working at a radio station this summer, where i met a man with whom i work together with and i'm very attracted to. We spend a lot ...

A.   16 July 2008: thank you all for your replies, they are very helpful.. ... (read in full...)

Wondering if he's too big for me and so if it will hurt the first time.

Q.   Hi.. i'm 16 and i'm wondering if my boyfriends penis will "fit" in my vagina the first time we have sex.. it looks so big when i give him oral and i'm afraid that i'll bleed and that it will hurt because i'm a virgin! please help!...

A.   26 September 2007: thanks for the answers guys..feeling better now and i'm sure i want my first time to be with him.. ... (read in full...)

He feels nothing during sex with me and sees it as a chore... He says I'm too loose!

Q.   Hi everyone, I only had 2 sexual partners so far, one is my current boyfriend. My first boyfriend had a small penis however i had many orgasims and had sex many times a week. But my new or 2nd boyfriend who has a large penis says i am loose an...

A.   25 September 2007: this guy can be described with one word. selfish. don't stick around with a guy who hurts you! nobody has the right to insult you, and if anyone does he doesn't deserve your time. find someone who likes you simply for being you, and you'll see how ... (read in full...)

My BF hit me across the face when all I was doing was joking around - will he do it again?

Q.   I love my boyfriend so much but the other day he hit me across the face when i was pretending to pull his pants down. It was suposed to be a joke. I ran of crying after that shocked and hurt. He has apologised so much but should i be worried he ...

A.   16 November 2006: no honey please don't lose your time with that guy!please..don't ever have a relationship with a man that doesn't respecte you because what he did showed lack of respect!don't keep on being with him,he could be dangerous and abuse you.a man who hits ... (read in full...)

When my friend was dating her bf I became best friends w/ him. Now I've fallen for him!

Q.   Hey..so a friend of mine met this guy and they were together for 3 months.while they were together we became best friends,he's an amazing guy,2 years older and very attractive.they broke up 2 months ago,he broke up with her an now we are ...

A.   15 November 2006: hey again..comment on malyce sinns answer..so im not thinking that she will spread gossip..i know her for 8 years and she has done many things like that and worse,she is a very jealous person treating people badly..so it's not that i think ... (read in full...)

When my friend was dating her bf I became best friends w/ him. Now I've fallen for him!

Q.   Hey..so a friend of mine met this guy and they were together for 3 months.while they were together we became best friends,he's an amazing guy,2 years older and very attractive.they broke up 2 months ago,he broke up with her an now we are ...

A.   15 November 2006: hey.so thnx for your answer but actually we WERE friends..we have fought bcuz of maaany things and it turned out she wasn't a friend and talking to her just isn't an option..any ideas?xxx... (read in full...)

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