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writes:Hello,i recently entered a marriage website then there was this man who used to contact me every day but i was not answering him cause for some reason i found him weird ,he kept on like that for 2 months.then he suddenly stopped. after sometime i read his profile it said that he has found someone.for some reason i had regret that i never gave him a chance.soon after a week he contacted me again this time i answered himi really found him interesting and he told me that he wanted to talk to me for so long and that he met someone but that was only cause i would not answer him . he also told me he likes me and i should send him pictures.so do you think this man loves me that much Reply to this Question
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (26 June 2007):
 NO, he doesnt love you, he doesnt even KNOW you! For 2 months he tried to contact you based soley on your profile and you refused to even speak to him. This means he likes your PROFILE, not that he likes YOU. You werent interested until you thought he was unavailable. Pretty pathetic on your part. Maybe he met someone, maybe he just said so on his profile to make himself sound more intrigueing. The point is, you dont know this man and he doesnt know you. You are at the very very beginning of getting to know each other. Take your time, and dont mistake interest or attraction for love. Love is much more important than that!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): You state this is a marriage website. Is this a site for married folks to date and connect? Or is it a site for marriage minded single/available people? I hope it is the latter.
If you and this man met online and he hasn't seen your pictures, dear--then we can safely say, he's may be interested in getting to know you, but he doesn't love you. Perhaps infatuation, is more like it. You have to proceed cautiously when you meet people online, hun. It's just an online relationship and these relationships are often very fickle. Please, do not let all your emotional boundries down with a man you haven't met. There are 'cyber' men out there, who are so deeply involved in the internet world, they find it a more compelling attraction than meeting a live, warm, breathing woman. I'm not saying this is him, but you don't know. Right now, you both are simply chatting and simply e-mailing. Go slow. You will never know the true person until you go into his world, meet him face to face, talk to people who know him and get a feel for 'who he truly is!' and this takes, time, efforts and a great deal of hard work on the part of both people. So as of right now...you and he are simply "online friends'. Woman are famous for giving up everything for 'one' guy they like. Men never do this. It should never be this way until she is absolutely sure he is 'the one'. And a process like this, is taken with care and safety. Good luck, and take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): Well he said he liked you not loved you.
How is it you changed your mind on avoiding him by wanting nothing to do with him because you found him weird to all of a sudden, you regretted not giving him a chance due to he is now unavailable?
Who should be labled weird in this case?
You joined that marriage sight so therefore, you are going to get men wanting marriage from you. It's all a bit odd and you play a big role in it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): um.. you dont know this man? and you have hardly ever spoken to him. how can he love you?
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