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writes:A guy who was my classmate said that he likes me .Then we chatted almost all over the night for 2 months. He was always online and replied to my messages as soon as possible. He shares everything but never tells me that he loves me. Nowadays he reply my message after a day . But we will never dating.Its a distance relationship. I messaged him on Whatsapp. He replied after 7 days. Then I do not reply him still now. We are not in contact for 20 days. I am very much confused if he love me or not. I can't forget him. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, AnnalisaV  +, writes (2 May 2017):
 Hi,whilst he obviously likes you and finds you attractive, it is very hard to fall in love without physical contact. Every-day life gets in the way. People need to feel the person they are with in the same room as them, hold hands, kiss, hug... These are things that bond two people into one soul and no amount of messaging can make up for it.If he was in love with you (and you with him) you would both have made an effort to be closer together.In my experience, you just cannot breathe without the person you love by your side and you just do everything in your power to create a life together.If he is not committed to you, you can try 2 things:1- consider whether you could move closer and make yourself available to date him; then ask him how he feels about you and if your move would encourage him;2- replace the time you spent chatting with him with something else or take on activities that make you too tired to talk all night.If he cares, he will reach out to you.If not, you are better off looking around yourself at the people around you and find love closer to home.Best of luck x
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (6 October 2016):
 I think he thought off you as a penpal. Someone to talk to about stuff when he couldn't sleep. Someone who could be his friend. I don't think he loved you, to love someone you need to spend quality time together face to face getting to know each other. I know it is hard to forget about him as you spent a lot of time talking to him, but just distract yourself. Find a hobby before bed time, maybe read a book or play a game, something to take your mind away from him.
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