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writes:Do you think that you should continue to talk to someone who did something very wrong to you? I mean this person tricked you but they still try to be nice to you and somtimes you go along with it.. do you think that person should leave them alone for good? Reply to this Question
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (31 October 2008):
 Having done a few things in my life that require forgiveness and not always getting it I make very sure that I try to see both sides of the story and forgive where possible. I have found most people do something wrong because they have been forced into a corner and for a number of reasons have just made the wrong decision. Normally this isn';t wilfully done it is just a serious of unfortunate events.
If someone is sorry and they are trying hard to make it up to you then that takes some guts and I think you have to try and forgive if you can. Giving someone another chance is a good thing to do. I once spent months trying to apologize to a girl that I had said nasty things about and I was so sorry but she wouldn't forgive me so I had to just give up and keep away from her. Funnily enough many years later we were thrown into a horrible situation in a club and we were the only people who knew each other so we sought of stuck together to get through it and because of this the rift between us became forgotten - but that was many many years later.
I think if you can find it in your heart to forgive then it is always the right thing to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks sweetie!
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reader, girl with concern  +, writes (31 October 2008):
I think that whats done is done.. if you were or are close to this person then you should forgive them because you only live once.. and people should be forgiven because nobodys perfect...is this person sorry .. think about it if they are then just imagine you being in their shoes..Wanting to work things out again.. especially if they are making the effort and not giving up to be friends with you that must mean they are sorry xx good luck best advice i can give anyway sweetie
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