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writes: I met a cute girl in class about 2 weeks ago. I had checked her out since day one of course but the teacher finally put us together. This was a Monday. I finally got to know her name but I was SHY. I listed her as a friend on facebook (College networking site) and we occasionally message back and forth. We had a quiz coming up and I sent her a message if she wanted to study beforehand at the Library. She accepted but wanted me to invite others, too. I didn't of course saying no one could make it! We chatted for 50 minutes only talking about work for literally 2. We shared chuckles and smiles and every so often, we made eye contact and she'd look away smiling. I thought it went well. Basically, she gets to class after I do so I rarely get to talk to her. She also leaves like super fast so I actually have to pack up before class is over to talk to her. So very rarely get a chance to talk during class. Next Monday, I caught up to her after class and asked her if she wanted to study Tuesday night for our exam but she said she couldnt - was working. Which I found out was true. We talked for like 3 minutes before going our seperate ways. That Thursday, I was working and was going to be on campus all night. I saw her at the gym on an exercise bike and I approached her. She was listening to her Ipod and I asked how her test went. We talked for a minute and I said "Hey. Im gonna be on campus tonight cuz im working. Wanna hang out at the commons (student union) or something?" She said "No I cant- I actually have a friend over". I dunno if this is true or not but who make something like that up?I've tried playing the "let's just meet up and do something casual game" and "lets ask her last minute to think Im busy" game but no luck here guys. Here's my plan - this Monday at class, get to her and ask if she just wants to hang out Wednesday before class (we dont have any homework or test that day). IF she says no, say something like "well, you're really hard to meet up. What's a good time then?" If she says yes, great and I plan on saying "Hey my friend Kenny and this girl are going bowling next Wednesday night. You wanna come?"Do you guys think this is a good strategy and do you think she's into me and just shy and busy (I mean I have given her like 2 days notice both times she had to turn me down!). On her profile page of (facebook), she says and I quote "Im a shy girl but once you get to know me, Im really fun." Do you think she's being shy with me or uninterested?
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reader, beanybikes +, writes (22 October 2006):
i think this girl is shy. she may not have had a boyfriend before or had problems with boyfriends in the past. ask her out again, bowling is a good idea but theres also the cinema. if she says shes busy just ask her when shes free that way its her thats arranging the day and time. then theres no excuse. is she still backs down to this shes probably just not interested but doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
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