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Do you think my teacher likes me more than a student teacher relationship?

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Question - (23 September 2007) 11 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2009)
A female United States age 22-25, *inkbees09 writes:

So I've liked this teacher for about 4 years now. He was one of my middle school teachers too. Anyways, the last couple of months of 6th grade [when I started liking him too] he started calling me by another name, it was a type of inside joke. But anyways a few months ago, I’m in high school now, I went to one of the concerts and he was there. My friend and I went up to visit him. He said hi to her first then to me touching both out shoulders in a friendly normal teacher way. Then my friend said something and he said that he had missed her and me, calling me by the second name. Then my friend’s parents came up and my old teacher started telling a story and during it he did look at me, totally happy. But then when my friend and me were about to leave, I really wanted to give him a hug but I was too scared and didn’t.

Last year at my band camp, he came and helped out and at one point he came up beside me and said he didn’t realize it was me and he asked how I was and small chat like that. And while I was one of his students, he would ask if I were mad at him all the time and I’d always say no. I had only seen him do this to one other student too. And sometimes when I was in his class and he called on a group I was in, and I looked up, he would be looking at me. One time it was near the end of the class and he was giving out our progress reports, he called me by my real name, a rarity since he always called me by my pet name, and then when I was showing one of my friends my report card she said ‘why are you showing off’ or something like that. Then he said she isn’t showing off, she’s just telling the truth or something like that. He would do stuff that made me think he knew that I liked him and that maybe he liked me back. I’ve liked him for 4 years now and I don’t think I’m ever going to stop liking him as a teacher, when it comes to me liking him as a crush that will pass by eventually, I hope. So anyways do you think he likes me, or is it just a normal teacher student relationship? And to this day he will still call me by his pet name lol. He's married too btw and maybe in his 30-40s not too sure.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2009):

I have the exact same problem and the teacher i had is not married. from what i read i think your teacher is very much attracted to you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009):

And now that I look back on what we "did" flirting wise, I really think he treated me a tad bit different from everyone. He still does to this day when I see him. He has kids and a family so I wouldn't try to date him, mostly because I wouldn't anyways, but its nice to have those memories.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009):

im sortof in the same situation...im IN LOVE with my old teacher ..im a sophomore and he was my freshman teacher..well anyways hes married w/ kids and 37 almost 38 and im 16 almst 17..but yea, just the way he flirts w/ me makes me think he wants me too...but then i see he flirts like that w/ other girls..so idk...but it feels lik its different with me...but i also sorta dated my old middle school teacher (27) like a yaer ago so if u wana hold on their is hope dear...but thas only if u wna try...id try sending him an email or w/e , his teacher email, ajust to say hey..n see wher it goes from their!!!

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A female reader, xoxofloridagirlxoxo United States +, writes (11 January 2009):

hey im in the same situation, only the teacher i KNOW likes me, your teacher....is just bein a big ol' flirt, hah. does he have kids? because maybe he is treating you like on of them or somethin. anyway good luch!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007):

He might like you to!! Hes your teacher and its illegal. Plus hes married you wanna jepadise his marriage and career?!! I think you should start flirting with lads your own age who are singal, take your mind of him! good luck x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007):

I know but he only did it to me!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007):

its hard to tell because teachers do that all the time !!

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A female reader, Pinkbees09 United States +, writes (4 October 2007):

Pinkbees09 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Pinkbees09 agony auntAnyone??

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A female reader, Pinkbees09 United States +, writes (28 September 2007):

Pinkbees09 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Pinkbees09 agony auntNo one else has an opinion on this?

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A female reader, Pinkbees09 United States +, writes (25 September 2007):

Pinkbees09 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Pinkbees09 agony auntOh yeah I totally know that, but thanks for your opinion, I need more input then just my mom lol.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007):

hes just flirting with u

loads of teachers do this, its wrong really because they make students think they like them and cause great trouble

The crush will pass but he seems like a good guy either way so i doubt he'd take this further.

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