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writes:I'm not sure what to do. I started a work placement yesterday at a recreation centre, which i have to go to for four weeks, and i really like this guy i have just met there who works there. He looks like Johnny Depp when he was younger !!. I'm 27 and this guy is a lot younger than me. He's 21, so that could be a problem, and another problem is that he has a girlfriend. He sent me a friend request on facebook today, so that's how i know that he has a girlfriend, as it says so on his relationship status. There was a quiet moment during work where it wasn't that busy, so he went on his facebook page, and i mentioned that i was on there too, so he searched for me and added me. He's a musician too. I can't stop thinking about him, and i haven't been able to stop looking at his facebook page. He has a lot of photos of himself on there. Do you think it's possible for me to stay friends with him, even though i am attracted to him ?. Obviously, we have to be friendly towards each other at work, but i'd like to keep intouch with him when my placement has ended too.I know it can be hard to be just friends with someone you are attracted too though. We both love going to shows and concerts too. He smiled at me a lot today, and winked at me a couple of times too. When he smiled, it was a big smile , showing his teeth, so it was like a grin, if that means anything ?. I'm not sure if he is attracted to me or not, and i wouldn't want to split him and his girlfriend up, and i know i would probably just have to wait and see if he becomes single and take it from there. What do you think ?. Have any of you ever been in this situation before and what would you do ?.
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reader, Little Miss Love +, writes (18 May 2011):
 hiya ive been in a situation like this before and my friend had the same situation with someone else, however we bith reacted differently, she told him she was atrackted to him and turns out he didnt feel the same back which made everyhthing akwward and they didnt feel comfortable around each other so the slowley grew apart me on the other hand stayed just beeing friends and got to know this boy really well untill we were so close we could talk about relationship advice, and he confessed to me all of his feelings which ment i could undersrand how he felt about me and we ended getting so close we could make the move and start a relationship, so my advice is stay friends and try not to stress too much about what he feels for you and once you know enough about him you might see where it goes but try to ne careful about not getting in between him and hid girlfriend :) xx
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