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anonymous
writes:Do you think i was cheated on?About 3 months ago..my female housemate of two years moved out to go back home overseas after finishing a degree, her boyfriend stayed living with us for a couple more months. At this point it is me, my husband, our male housemate, and our little kid. A week later after she moved out i get an anonymous message on my phone from someone saying my husband was cheating on me with my housemate, then afew hours later our male housemate returns telling me he got a phone call from some girl he didnt know telling him the same thing about his girlfriend(the one that just moved out) cheating on him with my husband. So my husband denied it and didnt react very strongly but it didnt take him long before he got irritated with me asking him and being suspicious. The female housemate blocked me from Facebook and she has never to this day tried to tell me it was not true, no reassurance. My husband thinks maybe she doesnt want to tell me because she has done nothing wrong.So to this day,for the sake of my family, i have to give him the benefit of the doubt, even though she NEVER tried to tell me it wasnt true, im sure she would know i would be suspicious if she blocks me and doesnt try to contact me? does she want me to believe it? or am i being lied to?Some have told me to not believe it. What do you think? i wish i was psychic, but i cant let this go...i need closure! What would you do if it were you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2011): No one knows who this woman on the phone is. Your husband denied it and got angry when you kept prodding. Your female ex-roommate blocked you on Facebook.
There is so much drama in this situation, but no facts!
Were you cheated on? Maybe, but where's solid evidence? Did you try tracing the number of the woman who called? Is there any other evidence?
Did you consider that your husband got angry with your prodding because you were annoying him? Did you think that maybe your ex-roommate blocked you on Facebook because she didn't want to have to be accused of having an affair with your husband?
There's really just no way to tell whether you were cheated on, but there ARE multiple reasons and rationales that are feasible in this situation.
I really wouldn't dwell on it. She's out of the country, your husband is still married to you, and there's just no proof.
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