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*nderina
writes:I just broke up with my ex and actually he was the one who initiated it as he's busy with his stuffs and in fact, his schedule was pack all the way to November, maybe December too and so he told me that he think it's better for us to remain as friends as he does not have enough time for me and I believe what he said as I saw his schedule too and I should say that no third party was involved. However he began to text me in the middle of the night one day telling me he's sorry to hurt me and so I messaged him back and we started to text a few times that night. The next day, he text-ed me again and this time round, he called me and we had a chat and things seems to be like what we used to be, which was very sweet and great. Before putting down the phone, he asked me whether I was happy that he did not text or call me the past few weeks.. I wanted to tell him deeply how I feel but I did not. After that incident, I did not hear from him for around 2-3 days and this made me miss him so much as I went to the place we first known each other. So I messaged him regarding his health as he's not feeling well lately and he told me he's still in pain and asked me why did I ask. At first, I told him "nothing, just asking" and he asked me to say the truth... which again I told him I just wish to find out how he's doing and he replied with a sigh. Soon after that, he asked me if I miss him and want to find him... I did not answer him anything but deep down inside, I really miss and love him a lot. Do you think there's a possibility for us to get back together as we did not quarrel at all and I really love him.. and do you think he still like me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): OR he may like having you as the security net, there to catch him IF he changes his mind or IF things do not work out as he planned AND it is nice to know that they person we dumped is upset, it gives us comfort and makes us feel good about ourselves
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (29 October 2007):
 Egghead is absolutely right. He may have split with you in haste and is now regretting that and is now asking how YOU feel about not having him in your life any more. He can't read your mind so tell him how you feel. Let him know you miss him and would love nothing better than to get back together with him. It seems to me that you both still care deeply for one another so go on... TELL HIM!!!
Eve
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