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anonymous
writes:Hello, everyone - I really need some help with moving on so here goes. I like this guy a lot and have for about one year. I think he likes me cause he flirts with me a lot but he has a girlfriend and she's giving him sex so I don't stand a chance. It's getting to the point with me now that I'm uncomfortable around him, even to see him at a distance (we all work at same place) so it seems like the only alternative I have is to completely drop out of sight (easy to do where we work) and change things around so I can do this. I let myself fall for his flirtatious advances but in the long rain it's taken a toll on me. My heart aches and I'm emotionally drained from this mentally paralyzing experience so do you think "disappearing" would help me to move on and get my life back? I thought also of putting a note under his car windshield saying "kiss goodbye." I don't have anyone else to talk to about this so I'm desperate for your feedback. So thank you in advance for your suggestions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): Hi honey, ahh bless you! I dont know how old you are but you should hold your head high your find a great guy who deserves you for you sex doesnt come in to it
if you enjoy your job why should you leave
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 November 2008):
I think it would be best.
Just drop out of sight. Leave a note if gives you closure but don't do it if you expect anything from it.
Plus you need to get out and about and meet some new people rather than thinking about him all day.
Good Luck!! xx
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