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Do you know any teasing techniques?

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Question - (27 November 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *ad_desires writes:

hey I was just wondering if anyone knew of any teasing techniques that I can use on my boyfriend. He told me that I couldn't turn him on by teasing him so I'm trying to prove him wrong. So my queston is do you know any teasing techniques?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009):

Dont do anything so sudden. Kiss her lips but pull away.

kiss around her neck, trace her lips with the tip of your tounge. dont let her kiss you. when shes really into it whisper things like

"Do you want me?"

lick from the side of her neck to her ear and then bite her earlobe gently. run your fungers from below her waist up to her neck.

rubb her vagina gently over her underware but only for a few seconds.

kiss her and bite her lip but only for a second.

make it look like your gunna go down but just kiss above her underware and lick near there.

breathe loudly in her ear.

repeat this for a while.

have fun ;]

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

I Always start by simply sitting on top of my boyfriend in bed and just holding his hands and stuff pretending im just being friendly and lovey dovey...

Lean over and kiss his lips softly and gradually get more sensual but don't just go for it... really think about what you're doing and how you're moving. you'll be able to tell if he likes it or not if he moves his hands towards more sexual parts of your body. Then kiss round the side of his face until you reach the sensitive bit under his ear on his neck... kiss him and lick him there and gently run your mouth over his ear and breathe down his ear and kiss it. sometimes i even suck his earlobe a little bit.

definitely kiss above his penis and its even better if hes got his pants on... and if he says right!... take them off say no and keep saying no until hes red in the face haha! makes it all the more worth while. hope its helped!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007):

Okay I love teasing my hubby, but make sure you do follow through as it gets quite frustrating for the poor man! hee hee!. Seen as your a couple already I wouldn't worry about being risque as its natural for you to push the boundries sexually.

I usually put a low cut top on and go about my daily duties, making sure that I bend over infront of him a lot so that he sees down my clevage!. So try things like wearing a short skirt and some nice knickers then bend over so he can see them!. Another thing I like to do is whilst laying in bed having a cuddle, with your back to him rub against his penis with your behind, then every now and then breifly stroke his penis then move away althogether!!. I garunatee that will get him going, but make sure you always follow trhough no-one likes a tease!.

ok hope that helps, good luck and have fun.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2007):

I would never say something that a porn star would say like saying "i've been naughty." Like if they shave their pubes I don't. If they say naughty I say nice. See? Be original. Guys love that. I am the queen of teasing. Ask all of my friends. They are stunned when they see how much game I got. I can turn a guy on just by looking at him. But I am such a pro that they can't even tell I am doing it on purpose. One of my friends says I am so charming. Another says I am sexy. I have never been with a guy who wasn't dying to rip my clothes off all day long. That's a 24 hour tease. And that's fun. Guys love it and it is ok to be 'slutty' with your bf.

Whatever you do, don't get your cues from porn. Big mistake. And its so lame. Slutty and skanky are two very different words. Always remember that.

I am not going to tell you everything I do, but just be a sex godess all day long. It is a feeling. And never let on that you are trying to be sexy. That's LAME. Be sexy without "trying." That's the secret. It always works. Like accidently let your hair brush across his face so he can smell it. But don't let on that you are doing it on purpose! Or talk to him about something and make sure you touch him while you talk but act like you are just into the conversation. Just stuff like that. And above all be yourself. Like if it is not like you to say "I'm naughty" then don't say it in bed cause its lame. Just be yourself. ANd be CONFIDENT. There is nothing sexier.

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A male reader, TomWilkinson United Kingdom +, writes (27 November 2007):

TomWilkinson agony auntGood question! Here's a few things my girlfriend does to wind me up =)

kiss him on the neck and whisper things like "I've been so naughty" in his ear, while moving your hand slowly down his body, and make contact with his penis over his trousers, and then just stop!

Similarly, make it look like you're going down on him, looking into his eyes with a cheeky smile, but just as you're just about to do it, stop again and go to kiss him, just letting your lips briefly make contact

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